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At the end of my Rope

 
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kimmik  

About kimmik

Apr 14, 2010
Just got divorced and moved out with my 13 year old son.Finally away from the abuse and depression.Easter Sunday Ex attempted suicide..lived, stayed in hospital 4 days. He texted me yesterday morning saying " Your child support will now be $275 not $800 anymore" He is also cancelling my Car Ins and Cell Phone. This leaves me with no way to pay my rent in my apartment. I have no friends , no family that can or is willing to help. No where to go. My son and I are devastated.
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kathy1957  

Fell on Hard Times

Aug 4, 2007

I'm a single mother living from paycheck to paycheck trying to find another job partime because i work a full time job already. I need help to pay my bills and to pay my rent for the month I'm behind on bills and really need to catch up and become current. I don't want to become homeless that happened before and it was the worse thing that could happen. I don't like asking for help because I know that it's people in worse shape then  I am but i really need help at this time. I feel like I have dug myself in a big hole and cannot find the way out.   

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MandyT  

Urgent Help Needed

Jun 26, 2007

  Hopefully, I am writing this note to ANYONE who could loan me some money so that I can pay my phone bill, before it get's cut off and my rent that is now 2 months behind.  My husband has been without employment for 17 weeks and I am the only one providing for 3 adults in my home.

My emotional and physical strength has almost been totally depleted, not to mention the bank account that's been totally depleted over a month ago. 

If I could get a loan, any amount will help, I will pay the loan back even if it's just a little each week until it's paid off.

Your help is urgently needed because I'm at the end of my rope and I am finding myself crying uncontrollably even if someone looks at me at what I perceive as "funny."

 

 

 

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Liz44221  

Liz44221

Jun 25, 2007
I am a 49 year old who is in need of money. My Husband is in prison and am the only paycheck in the home. I have a 21 year old daughter who is Bi-polar/learning disabled and is unable to hold a job do to her mental illness and disabilty. She is presently trying to obtain work through an agency that helps people with mental illness/physical disabilities,but they have so many cases it may take months for her to actually make money.

With out my husbands income I am $2,000. a month short for my bills. My house is being threatened with forclosure and I am behind on all my bills and cannot afford my daughters medication since most providers at the public clinic are no longer able to provide her medications,she becomes very suicidal and out of control without it . My car payment is two months behind and I am afraid to go to sleep at night because I am afraid they will try to take my car.

We are in desparate need of help any donation will do.  Now it is trying to decide pay bills, get gas to go to work or eat.
We have tapped out all of our retirement for legal bills. Please help!
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di1  

SINGLE MOTHER OF 2 LOSING EVERYTHING SINCE LAY-OFF

Jan 4, 2007

I was Lay-Offed two weeks before Christmas. And as A mother of 2 I am now looking at losing my home , car , and lights , phone. I have never asked for help, But I have nowhere to turn. There is no child support coming in , and no jobs this time of year.

Someone PLEASE tell me what to do. My fifteen year old is wanting to quit Football ( the game he loves just to get a job to help) But I do not want him punished for me getting layed off.

I have had promise after promise to get a new job, or called back, but they can not give me a date yet.  I ama at about $6,000 imidiate dept relife. And that is just to hold me over to stop reposesstions.

What do I do ? Next step is a homeless shelter with both children, I really can't do that but I have no family. And thier dad is a deadbeat. I have tried everything local, but they can not help at this time.

 

 

 

 

 

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